Nice guys : do you ever get tired of having to explain to every women you meet that you are not just out ..?

... for a good time, like all of the so-called "players" are? Admittedly, there are some really shallow guys out there, but it always kills me how the women who complain about them still go after the "hunks", while we normal guys sit home alone. Then, they complain about the men they date?!?!? I feel like every time I meet a woman like this, I am fighting her memories of all the sbags she has dated - before I even get a chance to know her. Do you know what I'm talking about?